Asalaamu alaikum. I am confused as to whether or not these talaaqs are valid. My husband has said it 3 times at 3 different occasions, he argues they are not valid as they were in anger. The first one was in an argument where we both verbally abused each other & i swore at him & told him to divorce me & he said talaaq this took place over the phone, he then took me back. The second time was in an argument on facebook and he also said talaaq again & then took me back. The third time was also over facebook in a heated argument which again involved us being abusive to one another & me telling him to divorce me, this time he said ur taaliqa taaliqa taaliqa...is this translation valid? After he said it he sent a message saying the divorce isnt for me or for Allah, its for your sake & Allah knows what is in my heart. I would be greatful if you could assist me in this as he argues that the first 2 are not valid. I havent spoken to him since he said it the third time as i would like the matter to be cleared first. We also have 2 children involved. JazakhaAllah khair sister umm esa.
i would like to ask a few questions and i will be greatful if both can be answered
1) Are woman allowed to wear jeans with a kurta / kameez which is upto the knees or longer?
2)i feel i am not ready to wear a burkha yet.. though my parents think of me as a very bad girl because i do not do so .. however truthfully i wear long clothes.. covering all my body parts and not too revealing or short either..i also wear a scarf. my coat is also long.. i feel very hurt so please tell me if you think im bad.
3) Is it allowed to clean up the eyebrows??.. only clean up NOT shape them? because the eyebrows both side were slightly deformed after an eye operation.. the sticky pad made it messy
jazakallah for your help
A little while ago, i was reading At-Tabari's tarikh called 'The History of Prophets and Kings Tarikh al-Rusul wal-Muluk' and I came across this page which is kind of contrary to Quran and early Quranic commentators such as Qurtubi Ibn Kathir etc..
Lets start off with the isnad:
According to al-Muthanna- Ishaq b. al-Hajjaj- Isma'il b. 'Abd al-Karim - 'Abd al-Samad b. Ma'qil- Wahb
Ibn Humayd- Ibn Ishaq- Wahb b. Munabbih al-Yamani which says God allowed Jesus the son of mary to die at three o clock, then he took him unto himself.
How reliable is this? Are these narrations sahih? Jazakallah khair
Alhamdulilah I am a religious sister who prays, wears hijab, and pratcices thikr of Allah.
I divorced my ex-husband two years ago after I caught him gambling. I tried for 8 years to make it work but the problem continued. I am 26 and have two children. I support my children and myself. Alhamdulilah I have a wonderful and well-paying career and a college education.
He does not pray but says he stopped gambling. I do not have any proof of this. He has a blue-collar job and can barely support himself. I really do not know what to do. I want to do what is right and please Allah.
I forgot to mention that he is pursuing to get re-married to me. He begs my family and friends for me to re-marry him.
I am not of the calibre of a scholar or even close, but i am up set with the comment Shaykh Tantavi of Azhar University has made ragarding the ban of hijab in france. he said that the law of wearing a head scarf is relaxed if you live in a non muslim country his comment is outrageous. what is the position of Shaykh Tantavi, are his comments correct? the link to the bbc site regarding his comment is as follows, (see for yourself) http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/3358363.stm [size=9:6f4463c9af](Originally posted on previous version of site 28/1/04)[/size:6f4463c9af]
Salamz! I read on the askimam.com wesite that nikkah can be done without the parents if they refuse. What is your opinion on this?
is it permissable to wear a salawar khemeez for sisters as the the bottoms as you know seem to me to resemble trousers of men
is it permissable to wear such clothing for muslim women?
due to the contraception i use (contraception is for medical reasons) i have vaginal 'spottings' which is small drops of blood everyday. can i pray namaz and read the quran and fast?
When calculating Zakaah do i calculate using the selling price or buying price?
What positions are we allowed with our wife during intercourse?